Woman who lives with her boyfriend’s mother says she limits her washing loads

• A 22-year-old woman who lives with her boyfriend and his mother says the mother recently limited her laundry to “one load” per week
• The woman – who shared her story on Reddit – said she thinks the mother made the decision to “despite” her because “she knows that I only have so many sets of work clothes as (means) I have to do several loads this week”
• The woman says she talked about the situation with her boyfriend, 24, and told him “this is the little S — who will end up

A woman who lives with her boyfriend and his mother said the mother “limits” them each a variety of laundry per week, and she noted that her boyfriend refuses to speak on their behalf.

22-year-old detailed his experience on the popular Reddit forum “Am I a ——“ Where Reddit users can go to seek advice on interpersonal dilemma. In her post, the woman said that she and her boyfriend, 24, have met for seven years and have lived with her mother “for two months now.”

The woman added that she recently did laundry when her boyfriend informed her that his mother has “limited us to a load this week.”

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“I feel that she is doing this (because despite me) because it is not the first time something similar has happened,” shared the original poster (OP) and added, “she knows that I only have as many sets of work clothes as (means) I have to do several loads a week.”

The woman said she then told her boyfriend that she would be willing to buy the laundry skis herself, “because I will already be Pay the water bill.“But she added that he” just shook his head and silenced. ”

The woman noticed that she then told her boyfriend that she feels as if he “always defends” her mother and consistently takes “her side and not mine”, and added that she told him “this is the little S – it will end up Divide us. ”

OP claimed that her boyfriend was silent throughout the exchange, and she now wonders if she is “A ——” to talk about it.

Redditors were shared over OP’s actions, with some who say she would simply suck it up.

“Her house, her rules. Get your own place,” said one person.

Others, however, said they thought the whole situation was an indicator of a major problem in the relationship.

“Nta (not a ——),” said one person. “But I suspect she will continue to trouble you while you stay there. The laundry is probably just the first of many problems she can try to cause with you and with your relationship. Have a security plan in places to stay safe.”

Another person added: “NTA. You see the result of this relationship and you see your future in it. You meet an immature person. He is still at Team Momma. He will not move to Team GF not if this has been the pattern for 7 years. Laundromat, stop paying her bills. Move out and move on.”

However, one person noted that they think everyone in the scenario is something wrong.

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“ESH (everyone sucks here),” they said. “Mom too to be passive-aggressive Instead of using her words to say that she regrets her decision to let you move in, your bf for stuck your head in the sand and let your ladies Due out among yourself so that he does not have to take pages and you are forgetful for some fairly wide hints that you do not fit into the household with the current model. ”

They added: “It sounds like everyone here must have a real honest conversation to see if there is a way to agree or make a plan to move out.”