Woman unsure if she received inappropriate comment from male co -workers

• A woman says that a co -worker recently commented on her bare legs, and she wonders “if that’s right I am crawled or if I (overreact)”
• The woman shared her experience on the British-based community website mumnet in an attempt to get input and advice from others about the situation
• The readers were shared by whether the man crossed a line or was just “friendly”

A woman says that a man working in her office made a potentially inappropriate comment – But she is not really sure if it crossed a line.

The woman detailed her experience on the British-based community site Mosnet, a place where women can go to seek advice from other women. In her postWith the title “Unpleasant comment from a work colleague I don’t know,” the woman said she hopes to find out “if it’s right I’m crawled or if I’m (overreacting).”

Op (original poster) went on to explain that she is working ”on head office for a large national company “where there are” several thousand employees on site. “She noted that she usually parks in the same place every morning, and” quite often a man is parked a few places that will start at a similar time as me. ”

OP said she recently pulled into her usual place and noticed that the man was already parked nearby and was sitting in his car.

“I got my stuff out and started going to the office. I heard him get out of his car about 15/20 seconds after I passed,” she recalled.

The woman – who shared she was Wear a skirt At that time because of the warmer weather – the man told her as she entered the building and then commented to her, “got your legs out today then.”

“I smiled/laughed sheepy and went on to the office,” she added before asked her members in society: “Is this scary considering that I don’t know this person, or is it just me?”

Readers were shared by whether the comment went too far, with some people who said they thought it was a perfectly reasonable thing to say – especially considering Recent change in the weather.

“I think it is a fairly common driving of the mill to say really, so no I would not care. I have heard that it said a few times before in fine weather,” one person wrote.

“I wouldn’t care about the least of this,” someone else said. “He seems to have noticed that you are dressed properly for the weather because it is a nice day. I would just take this as a friendly, observant comment.”

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However, others disagreed and shared that they thought OP was motivated to feel bad.

“(I am) quite easy going, but I would be less than impressed by that comment. I am surprised by some of these answers defends it, “ said one person.

Another person added: “The key test for objectivity is would he say it to a man? I do not suspect. So no, it is not an innocent comment. He looks at your body and clothes in a sexist way. Whether it is offensive to you or is not your conversation.”