The woman is suspended by her boyfriend’s inability to cook when discussing marriage

• A woman acknowledged that her boyfriend’s terrible cooking is a “shutdown.”
• The mumnet user also noted that she is “a very competent chef and it is definitely a language of love for me.”
• Comments on her post encouraged her not to give him up yet because of his other redeeming qualities she listed.

A man cooking Leaves a bad taste in his girlfriend’s mouth.

The 30-year-old woman — which tastes defeat when it comes to meals Her boyfriend does – crowned the good and the bad relationship In a revealing post on the British based forum Mumnet.

“I really like a year-long relationship,” the woman appointed her complaint and listed the qualities she likes about her 30-year-old boyfriend. “We are going well, he is attractive, kind and relatively successful.”

“But he can’t cook in the least. It’s actually such a shutdown,” she added.

To drive home her criticism, she described some of his homemakes.

“For dinner he will make the frame or pasta with ketchup 🤢,” she wrote, using emoji associated with disgust. “Not even a jar of tomato sauce with a grid of parmesan. He boils eggs because he can’t even crawl them.”

The girlfriend then explained how cooking is a “love language” to her.

“We have talked about children/marriage,” she noted. “I would be extremely annoyed if I had to cook every meal. I am a very competent chef and it is definitely a language of love.

Although she thinks “he is pretty good in every other way,” she emphasized how she does not “want to learn any basic life ability” and that she does not “see him take the initiative” to improve his abilities.

Wondering about her future with him, asked the troubled woman mumnet user, “Is it no time? Or just a compromise I have to make?”

Many readers offered similar advice on sending him to cooking courses.

“Cooking lessons for his birthday? You don’t have to teach him yourself but it would give you an indication of how willing he is to learn? Probably best to give him a heads up, it could be a dealbreaker,” wrote a person.

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The woman responded to the readers and described what she had already tried.

“I send him recipes that I see that is for non-cookers/beginners. But nothing is materialized,” she explained. “He continues to say that he wants to learn but he has said it since the day I met him.”

Another commentator encouraged her not to give up her boyfriend yet because of his other redeeming qualities and replied: “This is not a contract breaker imo (in my opinion). He can learn to cook. As long as he is right in other ways there are always restaurants. Do not donate him away.”