The bride refuses to have the groom perform heavy metal music at their wedding

A bride does not see eye to eye with her groom when it comes to their wedding music.

The 26-year-old bride detailed dilemma in a post On Reddit’s popular “I am ——” forum and explained that she and her fiancé-who marry next year-got a “pretty big struggle” while discussing the “music” part of their wedding reception.

She shared that while she prefers to play “music you usually hear at weddings” because she wants their wedding to be a “party”, her 32-year-old hubby “is a metalhead and likes very heavy music.” The bride explained that her husband even creates his own music-as he wants to play at the wedding so he and his friends “can have a Mosh pit.”

“He thinks it will be fun and a good opportunity to include everyone because he thinks they will not enjoy the rest of the evening if we just play” normal “wedding music,” wrote the bride. “And I think I appeal to what most people want/expect from a wedding with music choices.”

“I also think that playing their music will destroy Vibe for many people and the dance floor will end early and no one will be in the party anymore after a heavy metal song starts playing and there is a potential Mosh Pit,” she added.

The bride noted that she does not think his friends would notice or care about “their music” plays or not. She also said that her family accounts for about 80% of the wedding guest list because the groom did not want to invite “much of his family because of personal reasons.”

But she said that her hubby is “firm” that they play heavy metal music-and described it as a “make-or-break” decision.

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She also shared that until this time she had made many of the wedding decisions herself because her hubby “did not” care about any part of the process “until the question of the music came up. She explained,” most of the decisions have been on me, aside (from) some menu selection, because every time I ask for his post, he says he does not do what I want. ”

The bride claims that her hubby told her that he felt that she “did the day everything about me and not something he wants because of this.” She then asked other Redditors if she “is a Bridezilla or if he is unreasonable with this request.”

Several commentators agreed to the groom and claimed that he should get some kind of input in the wedding – especially with something he is so passionate about – because it’s “his day too.”

One person suggested, “Let him have some songs. It won’t be the end of the world. Let him be happy.”

Another Reddit user pointed out that because it is the couple’s wedding and the bride and groom is the main focus, “no one else can judge or say how it goes,” including when it comes to music.

They added, “I think that while the Mosh pit is a bit unusual, everyone who participates in your wedding should love you and your partner and find humor in it. It should be a fun night with a party. This is obviously something your partner cares – let him have some fun.”