Bridal fuming after friend revealed wedding dress information to the groom

• A bride to be split on Reddit that her friend revealed her wedding dress details to the groom and destroys the surprise
• “She doesn’t apologize and didn’t really realize what she had just done,” wrote the bride and also noted, “she has no sense of boundaries and self -awareness”
• Now, the bride is questioning if she still wants to ask the friend to be one of her bridesmaids

A bride to be angry with her friend to ruin the “surprise” by telling the groom what her wedding dress looks like.

She shared her story on Reddit“Wedding Planning” forum, starts by giving some context to friendship. She said she has known “M” for three years, and the two have grown quite close and talk often. But she has recently been increasingly discouraged by M’s behavior towards her.

“More recently, she has done several things that make me question whether she is really my friend, and I can’t see if she is just an airhead who says what will think about or if it is intentional to hurt me,” she explained, noting that it has made her reluctant to follow her plan to ask her to be one of her bridesmels.

Things came to a head after the bride dressed with her family and later sent some photos to M and revealed her dress choice.

Not long after, the bride and her hubby stayed at M’s house, and M commented on an unfriendly comment that the bride had gained weight.

Then, while the three were talking, I suddenly start saying “Oh my God your dress was so beautiful, I love the sweetheart’s neckline with mermaid silhouette and the lace window at the front …” and continued to describe the dress in detail in front of him, “according to the bride’s post.

The bride continued: “I stopped her middle judgment and said” It should be a surprise. “She stopped talking about it, but she didn’t apologize and didn’t really realize what she had just done.

While the bride acknowledged that her hubby really still “has no idea what the dress looks like,” she said she can’t help but feel “super upset (as), she took that surprise away from me in a way.”

Her hubby has assured her “It’s not a big deal” – but the bride insisted: “It’s a big deal for me and I just feel it is intentionally.”

Now she feels even more “conflict” about having M in her bridal party. “She has no sense of boundaries and self -awareness,” the bride wrote about her friend. “I don’t really know what to feel or do with it all. I feel guilty if I don’t have her in the bridal party, but I don’t know if I can trust she is a supportive friend either.”

The bride ended her post by asking for advice and opinions from other Redditors. In the comments, many bride urged to go with the intestine and not ask M to be a bridesmaid.

“Do not include her in your wedding party. Self-awareness, kindness, supportive is all parts of a mature relationship-she clearly has none of these qualities. I would not trust or feel comfortable having someone like this has such an important role for the biggest day of your life,” wrote a person.

Someone else commented: “This is not a friend, this is someone intentionally trying to sabotage your happiness because they are jealous. I would cut her off.”

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When it comes to M who ruined the surprise about the wedding dress, a lot of commentators assured the bride that her hubby probably gathered some information from the description M gave.

“If your hubby is something like mine and most hubby out there, he won’t remember what she said tomorrow/when the wedding rolls in, and/or doesn’t even make the compound/connections. I just asked me. I just asked my fiancee: ‘If I told you my dress is A-line, do you know what it is?” He replied “a line of what?” And it said everything.

Another agreed to chimney in: “This! Someone could describe my dress as having a pencil-folded chiffon skirt and a pool train with a pearl bar and hat sleeves and he would be like” WTF is chiffon and why looks the pick like pens. “Even with that description you would still fight to imagine exactly What the dress looked like. “