90 days Sarper tells Shekinah “If we break, you will cry for several years” after threatening to leave

Sarper and Shekinah seems to have reached a breaking point.

In the section 4 90 days hubby, The couple sat down for a conversation after an explosive argument left them questioning whether their relationship should hold. With only two months left at Sarper’s hubby, he began to worry that he and Shekinah were not ready for marriage.

“We can’t continue living this way,” he told cameras. “We have to solve it. We have to break up, or we have to get healthy again. Nothing in between.”

When Sarper pointed out that there were also basic questions in their relationship, Shekinah understood how he felt, but said she should not be “punished” for something she can’t control.

“You don’t like me anymore, do you know this?” Sarper then asked.

“I don’t like Sarper that you have shown me lately,” admitted Shekinah and called him “distant, cold, rude (and) rejection.”

“I was in depression!” He defended himself. “But you know what, I can’t recognize you, Shekinah. This is not the girl I met in Turkey.”

“Oh my God, you’re so dramatic,” she snapped, but he insisted: “I’m not dramatic, I’m just real.”

“She was obsessed with me when we were in Turkey,” Sarper claimed in his confession. “I mean, she listened to me a lot more. Right now, I mean, the hard tone, she barely used it. In Turkey we had little problems, but here everything changed.”

Shekinah, however, said that their place is not the cause of her behavior. “The version of me that you get depends on how you treat me. And how you have treated me in recent days is the reason you see this face now, and you hear this voice now. It’s because of you. So it’s a choice you make.”

“I made no choice,” he interrupted.

“You made a series of choices that have put us in a bad situation now, where I don’t even know if I want to get married,” Shekinah revealed.

By admitting that Sarper was “extinct” when he moved to Los Angeles, Shekinah argued that she “would not put up” with him “took out her frustrations on me.”

“You are super ruthless with our relationship,” she told him, to whom he replied, “You know that if we break up, you will cry for years for me. I know you. I am the most perfect match for you.”

However, this comment only made Shekinah more upset. “Are you kidding me? I’m not a helpless woman who can’t survive without you or will cry for years. Give me a break.”

Despite their various personalities, Sarper said that his “connection” with Shekinah is “what holds us together.”

“She is my soul mate,” he added. “As a puzzle piece we end each other, but right now it’s completely different. She doesn’t listen to me, she doesn’t hear me. She does nothing I want. I mean, everything is F —– up. Everything is so messy, and I don’t know how to solve it.”

Sarper continued to tell Shekinah to be around her “is like going on eggshells”, so she told him, “if it’s too hard, leave.”

“Wow, a threat,” he said. “It’s not a threat,” she said. “It’s one out. If you can’t do it, no one is forcing you to stop.”

Later in the section, Sarper was lost to words and claimed that there was nothing he could say that would be good enough for Shekinah.

“I guess it tells you everything I need to know,” she replied. “The man I am with does not know what I need to hear at this moment. He does not know what to say. He does not know how to behave. He does not know how to treat me right. He does not know how to listen to me.”

When Sarper accused Shekinah of having “no compromising skills” and doing nothing to “fix” her questions, she said it was not her responsibility to do so.

“When Shekinah came to Turkey, my home was more than mine,” he said. “And my family treated her just like her own daughters. That’s why she doesn’t understand what I’m going through right now. I sacrificed many things to be here in (it) us with her, and when she is angry and upset, she just thinks about herself, and she doesn’t see any of this.”

In downtime, Sarper decided to confess his love for Shekinah: “I don’t want to F —— Lose this relationship. That’s the only thing. Because this is a million and I won’t catch it anymore if I break with you.”

“I mean, I’m sitting here thinking I could find a relationship better than this,” she explained. “Why aren’t you sitting here saying you’re sorry?”

“I always say (it), every day,” Sarper replied and made Shekinah realize that “we will not come anywhere.”

“It’s bad for my mental health to continue walking around the circle with you,” she said as she left the room. “Come back when you have something better to say, because it’s pointless.”

“It was a huge decision for me to make, to go from never wanting to marry to agree to marry anyone,” Shekinah admitted. “And now this is what he shows me. I just feel stupid and I feel that I should have stuck with what I originally wanted, which would never marry me.”

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