Women’s partner is only given in the evening invitation to friend’s wedding

• A woman was shocked that her partner in three years was only invited to tonight’s part of her friend’s wedding celebration.
• The woman described the situation as “strange” and accused the bride of being “rude”.
• Comments were shared about whether or not the bride did something wrong.

A woman has accused her friend of being “rude” after discovering her Wedding invitation only allows his partner to participate for a few hours.

Venting on “Am I unreasonable?” Forums at Mosnet, the woman explained that she will be a bridesmaid for a friend from college this summer and their friendship is “firm” even though she now lives all over the country from each other.

She recently received her friend’s official wedding invitation and was surprised that her partner, which she has been with for three years, was invited to the evening festivities-but not the ceremony or the afternoon reception, which includes a “sit-down meal and speech.”

The woman said the bride has never met her partner because of their long friendship and she understands that her friend could potentially be To manage cost restrictions. But she admitted that “some of me thinks this is rude” and wonders if she “is unreasonable to find this strange.”

“We will have to travel and stop (overnight) to participate, and since the arenas are something out in the sticks, it would be logistically a pain for my partner to go back and forth between a hotel and arenas,” she added.

The woman ended her post by sharing that her partner “does not really want to participate” in the first place – which she says “I completely understand” – but notes that she would “love to have him there.”

The majority of postal comments agreed that the partial invitation felt like A wedding label faux pas.

“If you are close enough to be her bridesmaid, your partner should receive a whole invitation. This is rude,” said one person.

“I don’t think it’s ever ok to give partners/spouses different invitations to different pieces a day but especially if you are a bridesmaid,” wrote another commentator. “And if I was your partner I wouldn’t care about walking.”

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Others said that although the original poster friend may be wrong, she should not emphasize too much for it – with some to note that it may even be better in this way.

“If I was your partner, I would love to stay at the hotel until the evening (reception), (few) a taxi there and enjoy the evening with you. It does not make sense that he goes to the ceremony or sit down a meal,” wrote a commentator.

Another individual found that the bride would have actually tried to do something thought provoking.

They wrote: “Although on the face of it, it Seems Rude, I think the bride has a point. Going to a wedding when you know no one but your partner isn’t the most fun. If you then don’t get to spend time with that partner as the top table He may much prefer to see you be the bridesmaid at the (ceremony) then go off to the pub to watch a match, then join you in the evening for a dance. “