Wife becomes uncomfortable when brother -in -law visits. Now you are angry with her.

A woman is looking for feedback on how she directed her swogs after he repeatedly arrived at her home “without a message.” The original poster (OP), which identified herself as a 28-year-old woman, explained her problems with the family member of Reddit‘S’ I am a —— ‘the forum.

The woman started her post with a little background. She lives in a “quiet” home in Michigan with her husband in four years, Chris, 30. It is “nothing good”, and lately it has not felt safe. Tyler, Chris’s older brother, 32, continues to be claimed that he will show up uninvited “a lot”.

“Not when Chris is at home. No,” Op writes. “It’s always when he’s at work or driving errands or out with friends. Like last Tuesday I was in the middle of folding laundry and the doorbell rang.”

She added, “I opened the door, and there he was, smiling that was nothing strange.”

After she asked for a reason, he replied to “just checking something.” That’s the answer he “always” gives. But he has never revealed what he controls or given an actual reason.

“He just goes around, looking at random things in the garage, staring at the thermostat as if it will tell him a secret and then sits at the kitchen table as if he lives here,” writes OP. “I began to feel super uncomfortable.”

When the woman explained the visits to her husband, she received an unexpected answer.

“I thought he would also be knocked out, but no,” Op. “He just moved up and went,” maybe he needs something. You know how he is. ”

Part of the poster agreed, but still strange: “Yes, Tyler has always been a bit of, but it feels different.”

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The woman undertook to establish a limit with her swogs. The last time he came over, she said to him, “I would really prefer if you didn’t stay when Chris is not home. It makes me a little uncomfortable.”

In response, he silently stared at her, then smiled and said “Sure, what you want.” But she claims he said it in a certain tone, “You know it.”

Now OP Chris is angry with her for “making things troublesome.” He refuses to talk about it with her and instead claims that she “overreacts.” Even Chris’s mother asked her why she “is cold” to Tyler.

“I don’t feel safe. I’m not trying to start drama. I’m trying to protect myself,” OP writes. “Am I seriously too sensitive here?”

The woman explained that she wanted to give Tyler the benefit of doubt, but she does not like how she feels while she is around him. She described it as a “scary, silent excitement. As he looks at me.”

“Now I have basically banned my swogs from our house unless Chris is at home,” Op ended. “Everyone acts as if I committed a federal hate crime,”

Then OP left it to Reddit to decide if she was A ——.

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“Don’t let your husband and his strange A-Family Gas Light You,” writes a commentator. “It’s either that (your) man thinks you cheat and sicced their brother to control you, or (the) brother wants you for himself. I know that Reddit is quick to jump on the divorce train, but … girl jumps on that divorce.”

Another came up with the simple suggestion: “Start checking your house for hidden cameras.”

Someone else recommends that you leave when Tyler stops. “The next time he calls the clock grab your handbag. Go out the door,” Oh, sorry. I’m just on my way out. You have to come back when Chris is here. Have a good day. ”