The woman wants to divorce her husband over “cruel” punishment by her daughter

A woman was given in conflict about how her husband wanted to punish her daughter for her actions in school.

The Reddit user shares that she has a ten-year-old daughter from a previous relationship and a 13-year-old stepdaughter from her current marriage with her husband. The woman notes that her stepdaughter has “been the almost perfect child” and has never “had to be punished” for bad behavior “until recently.”

“She had problems with another girl (13f) in school. The other girl made fun of my stepdaughter” lesbian “mom and my stepdaughter made fun of the other girl’s” poor “mom”, explains the user

The poster says that the other parents founded their daughter for three weeks, and her husband has tried to find out how to discipline their teenager.

“My husband wanted his daughter’s punishment to match the crime. Because his daughter makes fun of the other girl’s financial situation, my husband wants his daughter to feel what it is like to be extremely poor,” the woman wrote in a post On June 2 and notes that the “other family is not extremely bad, by the way.”

“His plan for his daughter is to go to school with poor hygiene, for three days,” she adds. “No shower, no deodorant, no brushing of the teeth and reusing clothes. I told him if he goes through this plan, I will differ from him.”

Many in the comments were quick to question his thought process and noted that “humiliation is not punishment, it’s cruelty.”

“Why not make her volunteer on a protection/food bank?” Another user questioned, as the poster said she would “suggest” for her husband.

“Either that and/or founded his stepdaughter for 3 weeks,” replied the poster. “I still remember one day in high school when I forgot to wear deodorant and I had a gym.

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Other people shared their own experiences that grew up financially unstable and asked the poster to question her husband’s “prejudice.”

“Uhhh … Your husband is far from bass. Offensively so,” wrote a user. “Bad ≠ Bad hygiene. He should really explore his own inner prejudice.”

“Being poor is not automatically as a lack of hygiene, and using it as a punishment is diabolically for a number of reasons, instead of humiliating his children, why not have her volunteers part of her time to help the people she mocked? It would be a much more useful and valuable form of” punishment “, another person added.

“If I was her school nurse and she came to me with that scenario, it would have been my duty to call CPS. It is child abuse, not the education. This is very disturbing … Watch out,” someone else wrote.

In an update to postThe woman reassured commentators that both her daughter and stepdaughter were “safe.”

“I’m sure, and I will divorce my husband,” she concluded.