The woman says her ex’s new girlfriend has “pursuing” her online

A woman has discovered that her ex’s new girlfriend has been “Staling” her online For over a year – and she struggles to understand why.

The woman detailed her experience at “Relationships” Forum on mumnet.com, a place where women can go to seek advice on personal dilemma. In her post, which she titled, “My Ex’s new partner has persecuted me online throughout their relationship”, the woman shared that her 45-year-old ex-boyfriend-as she considered “the love for her life” broke up with her “out of the blue” 18 months ago.

She said his reasoning was “very vague”, although he claimed that something was “missing.” She added, “I had no idea that something was wrong and I loved him completely so I took it really hard, especially because he had told my friends and family that he would marry me.”

Op (original poster) continued to write that her ex had A new girlfriend – who is 18 years of age – within three months. “(It is) basically as if I have been cut and pasted from his life,” she added.

She also shared that her ex – with whom she also works – act strangely around her in the office, “(scuba diving) in the nearest cupboard when he sees me, even now after all this time.”

OP said that despite “trauma” and “panic attacks” caused by the unexpected heart damage, she has since “picked myself up” and goes well. The question? She said her ex’s new girlfriend has been “Creeping” on her online.

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“Since he met this new person, I have noticed strange things (…) on my social media,” she explained, leaving, “Odda Burner accounts, strange friend requests etc. This has now been going on for a year.”

She continued: “The past became the curiosity better from me and I (googled) the name of one of these strange accounts and a company phone number appeared on the results. Curious, I added the number to my contacts to try to find out who it was and see and see, Whatsapp took up her photo. ”

“I felt completely sick to know that she has been crawling on me all this time,” wrote, before sharing that she finally decided to reach the other woman over Whatsapp. OP said she wrote “something in line with,” Hi, I’m sure this is Really embarrassing For you but you really don’t have to crawl with fake accounts. If there is something you want to know or ask I am an open book. “”

But she said the other woman “denied everything” and “did not pretend to know who I was.”

OP admitted that the whole situation has made her start thinking about her ex and wonder if he is happy with his new life.

“If everything was sunshine and rainbows, she would not feel the need to do this. Especially for such a long time, “Rusled OP, while she further admitted that she would be open to To come back together with his ex if he was interested.

“I honestly think he has thrown away everything and one day will have a huge insight that he has been screwed up,” she wrote before asked her members in society about thoughts about what to do next.

The majority of the comments strongly advised the woman to try to move on with her life and not to read the new girlfriend’s online habits.

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“Why do you want him back? He traded you in for the younger model so it will never happen. Remove him from your social media, ignore her (she’s just curious) and find someone new, “said one person.

“Block, block, block and focus on yourself,” added someone else.

Others reminded OP to come back with her ex may not feel as satisfactory as she imagines.

“You realize that (if) you had him back would it never be the same? (…) draw a line under all this and move on,“Wrote another community member.

But another user said that if OP still has real feelings for his ex then there is no harm to try to have an honest conversation with him to find out if reconciliation is actually possible – “but remember that he has done it once, he can do it again,” they warned.