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- A woman fears that “something doesn’t add” about her new relationship
- She explained the situation at mumnet and said she sees her new boyfriend about three times a week, but she gets a feeling that he doesn’t look seriously with her
- Comments encouraged the woman to have an honest conversation with the man about her expectations
A woman is worried that something is turned off Her current relationship – And she asks others for advice.
In a post with the title “Something does not add,” On the British -based social side, the woman explained that she met her current boyfriend a little over a year ago, and that they were “off and on” for nine months before she became official.
She admires his “ambition and driving force”, and they have mutual friends, “literally no one has a bad word to say about him – just good things,” she said.
The original poster (OP), which explained that she has a child, continued to add that she and her boyfriend live in separate homes, and that he comes over three nights a week – one of which is a sleep.
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“We have fun. (We) go on vacation, (go to) bars – even trips out with my child together,” she said before she led, “but something tells in my gut I am just a little fun (for him) – I don’t know what it is. ”
The majority of the comments advised OP to sit down and have a sincere conversation with their partner.
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“What would an ideal timeline for this relationship look like for you?” One person asked and added: “What commitment do you want from a boyfriend of four months (even if you have gone further)? Maybe he still sees it as a new relationship (as it is). You have to talk expectations and see if they are compatible with his.”
Someone else said, “It’s too early for him to Move in with you (If this is as you have in mind). You have a child so you have to take things slowly and I suspect that is what he thinks, but talk to him. ”
Others encouraged OP to slow down and remember that she was only official with this man for a few months.
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“It’s a real new relationship. I would probably reduce the time he is in your place when your (child) is around. You don’t want them to be linked to someone who have not yet committed,“A commentator said and added,“ Just enjoy it for the relaxed relationship it is! There is nothing wrong with it! ”
