The woman accuses her husband’s ‘work wife’ of destroying their marriage

The old saying says, “Happy wife, happy life”, but an upset woman claims that her husband is not completely alive by the mantra.

Amy, 31, revealed on Reddits “Trueoffmychest” forum February 9 as she is in her “Wit’s End” with her husband, 32, his “Work Wife”, 30 and “His complete inability to see what happens” among the three.

“I have to know if I’m going crazy here,” she wrote. “Where do I even start? Three years ago, my husband Mark started working with Sarah. For starters, I tried to be welcoming. I invited her to our BBQs, included her in group trips and really tried to be friendly. ”

“Big mistakes,” emphasized Amy, before she remembered, “she constantly spent making backhanded comments about everything from my career (‘oh, you’re just a yoga instructor? How … peaceful.’) To my cooking ( ‘I guess not everyone can master basic seasoning.’)

More recently, in January, Amy noticed an anniversary mug that she gifted her husband was no longer at his work desk when she visited his office.

Amy’s husband told her that Sarah had “accidentally” hit it and made a mug to break, so he threw it away.

“When I was upset, Mark said that I was too sensitive,” Amy remembered and admitted, “it was a mug with our wedding photo on it.”

She noted that Mark said Sarah did not think the mug “fit on the office’s aesthetics.”

The wife wrote that “the real problem” is that he thinks Sarah is just fun. ”

Amy listed some of Sarah’s “biggest hits” that has annoyed her, wrote Amy: “She planned a” compulsory “work dinner on our anniversary. She convinced land not to take a promotion because it would mean working with another team.” She continues, “she publishes daily photos of them along with hashtags such as #Workpowercouple and #workspouse. Trained him right. ‘”

“The worst part? My husband is completely blind to all this, ”explained the wife. “Yesterday he actually talked about how Sarah said that our new house (which we spent months looking for) was” charming, at a kind of start. “He repeated this while he laughed.”

In response, Amy said that Sarah described her as “just insecure.”

“She has succeeded in inserting herself in all aspects of our lives. The text constantly – even on weekends, ”wrote the wife. “She knows his schedule better than me. She rearranged the entire desk and office wardrobe because his style was “for suburban husband.” That’s what he is! “

Recently, Amy recommended marriage counseling to her husband.

“He looked really confused,” she reminded. “Of course, he went and talked to Sarah about it. I found out another colleague that she has told people that Mark and I “go through a rough note” and that she is just a good friend by giving him someone to talk to. “We didn’t go through anything until she started this nonsense!”

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Amy added that she reached her “breaking point” during a recent office visit.

“I stopped at his office to surprise him with lunch (it was his birthday and Sarah was probably sick),” she wrote. “Guess who was there? Sarah. She had “miraculously recovered” and bought him a cake that said “to my work hubby”, with a photo of them from the office party. ”

“She saw me and said, ‘Oh, Amy! You came too … How nice. Mark, you didn’t tell me your real wife would come!’ I’m not crazy, right?” Amy wondered. “It Here the woman tries to destroy my marriage while my husband stands there flipping as if it’s all big jokes. ”

When I was looking for opinions outside, Amy then asked Reddit Forum: “What do I do? Divorce seems extreme, but I have run out of alternatives here. ”

Within 24 hours after sharing her story, the post collected almost 2,000 answers, with comments that gave advice on what she should do next.

“There will always be women like this out there. That’s how your husband reacts that is the problem, ”replied a person. “His obvious and constant disrespect is completely unacceptable and the fact that he ignores your feelings on this means that you now have to make him see how serious you are. If you do not change how you react and show him, you mean business, he does not change at this time. ”

A second reader noted that “Sarah is not the problem” and that “Your husband does not respect your promises or you.”

Another Redditor concluded, “You would have the right to offer one last ultimatum, but frankly if it comes to it, just chose yourself first. You deserve better. It will be difficult but you will not have these dirty feelings . ”