Sara Bareilles wedding non-negotiations with fiancé Joe tippet (exclusive)

Sara Bareilles is sure what she wants for her wedding to Joe Tippett.

Talk to People at the American Heart Association’s Red Dress Collection Conce in New York City on Thursday, January 30, “Love Song” singer, 45, given on the important details that absolutely cannot be skipped when she and she American primeval Actors, 42, says their “I dose.”

“You can ask my wedding planner,” jokes bareilles and refer to how serious she takes her big day.

For the “gravity” singer, comfort is the key.

“The non-negotiation book is that I want comfortable places to sit,” she tells people. “I want lots of blankets if it’s cold because I hate being cold.”

But Bareilles must also be sure that her guests are well fed and entertained and add: “The food must be melted and the music must be fantastic.”

“I just want it to feel really cozy and warm and inviting.”

Bareilles and Tippet met in 2015 when they worked with the paragraph Waitress At American Repertory Theater in Cambridge, Mass.

They went publicly two years later and made their debut with the red carpet at the opening evening for All nice boysWhere Tippett played.

“Right now I’m 45,” Bareilles tells people at Thursday night’s event. “The dream of my wedding doesn’t look like it might have if I was in the early 20th century.”

Although her vision for her wedding may be different today, says Grammy winner to celebrate love in the end is her goal.

“What I really want to do is celebrate our community of loved ones to witness this journey we take,” she tells people. “And I really want my friends and family to feel that they had a fantastic weekend.”

When he explains the meaning of the American Heart Association’s Red Dress Collection concert for her, Bareilles tells people that it is an “incredible gesture” that supports society that is affected by cardiovascular disease, especially women.

“We share stories and encourage each other to take our health seriously and I just love everything that this event stands for,” she says. “It’s so important.”

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Bareilles previously talked to people about her wedding to Tippett at the Purple Carpet premiere of her sitcom Girls5eva In March 2024. At that time she shared that while hoping to tie the knot that year, his busy schedule would probably drive things back a bit.

“Oh man, we were aiming for this year,” Said Bareilles. “But with its shooting plane, I think it can be too difficult to pull it together this year, so it can be pressed for next year.”

She also added that “delicious food and people who were warm” were among her must.