Parents interrupted “financial support” for the son’s wedding for this surprising reason

One parent says they decided to cancel their “financial support” for their son’s upcoming wedding after discovering something shocking.

In a post Reddit‘s popular “I am A ——” the forum, the parent shared that their 23-year-old son, who got engaged a few months ago, recently came to them and admitted that he had texted with a woman he met at Tinder.

“The lonely already shocked me … He is engaged, and it is obviously not acceptable behavior,” wrote OP (original poster).

But as it turns out, there was a big “twist” for history.

“The girl on Tinder was actually his fiancé. She made a false account to” test “if he were to remain loyal – and when he flirted back she confronted him,” Op revealed.

While OP acknowledged that what their son did was “tangled”, they were surprised by their future mother -in -law to catch him.

“Create a whole fake profile to catch your partner? It’s manipulation. If you have to run sting operations to trust your hubby, you might not get married,” they pointed out.

OP said that after learning what their son’s fiancé had done, they decided to draw their financing for the wedding.

“I told my son that I would not pay for the wedding anymore. I do not want to support a marriage that already starts with lies and games from both sides,” they wrote.

However, some family members have accused the OP of “overreacting and punishing them both.” After seeking other opinions, OP colleague asked Reddit users to weigh the sticky situation.

In the comments, many readers agreed that the couple is clearly not ready for marriage – but not just because of the hubby’s behavior.

“Unfortunately, but your son is on a dating site when she planned a wedding – while his fiancé deceived him. It doesn’t sound like a healthy relationship. And frankly, if the girl is smart, she should break it. Because it shows that your son is not loyal (again because of being on a dating app), wrote a person.

“Unless there is an agreement between them, that they get to meet their relationship, this is a big red flag,” they added.

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“You seem to have more anger towards your girlfriend than on your son, and it’s an interesting time,” said another commentator. “If she was your daughter and told you that she found evidence to indicate that her hubby was on Tinder and was looking for connections, would you still think so hard about her?”

The same person claimed that the son’s hubby had the right to be worried about his online habits. “She obviously had a reason to suspect that something was going on behind her back, and she was right. Why is a committed man on Tinder in the first place?” they asked.

Another reader assured OP that they are not an “A ——” to withdraw their financial support for the wedding.

“These people should not get married. And even if you can’t prevent it, you are no obligation to pay for the wedding,” they said. “There is also a difference between withdrawing an offer for a generous gift and” punishing “someone.”