Married Woman says her single friend makes “weird backhanded” comments

A Married woman have seemingly fallen out of benefit with her Best friend.

The woman crowned how her friendship was straining on Reddit’s popular “Am I a ——” forum In a post shared on Sunday, April 27, explained that her friend began to make “weird backhanded” comments about her busy Lifestyle after.

“I had met a man I fell for, and we became engaged,” wrote the 22-year-old woman, who met her 21-year-old friend two years ago at her job. “My life quickly took a trip to maturity. We bought a house, got a dog and started discussing a family after the wedding.”

“It was about three weeks before the wedding that she would constantly ask me to go out and party with her. I would tell her no, because I simply don’t have time for this in my life,” she continued. “I would try to invite her to do small things, like getting our nails done, or shopping for the wedding and she always declined and said it was too boring for her.”

It was when the friend started making “strange backhanded remarks” about the then bride who was always too busy because of her hubby.

The friend then went through some dating problems with a colleague.

“She screamed at me because I wasn’t there for her for a hard time,” she remembered. “I stopped talking completely to her. I was very tired of her constantly demanding my time. She lit me and called me a bad friend and said how I got into a relationship since I got into a relationship.”

“I told her very respectfully that that is what happens when people get married and that I wanted a friendship that is more mature than drinking and having random parties,” she added. “She then accused me of using her for fun during the summer and how she can’t be friends with me if there is a man in my life because it is apparently all that means to me.”

She felt “quite offended” by her friend’s reaction and still acknowledged that “I did value our friendship and I miss her a lot.”

The readers of her Reddit post were shared about the situation.

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“(Not A ——). Things change in life, and sometimes people’s maturity level raises faster or slower than others,” answered a person. “I know people in the 30s who are still partying as if they are in high school. I know 20-year-olds with a mortgage and family. None of them are necessarily wrong, but sometimes it makes people grow apart.”

At the same time, another commentator wrote: “(You’re A ——). You will wish she was there with you after your flash-romantic fizzles.”