Husband whose wife of 22 years kissed another man wondering what to do next

A man feels “lost” and unsure what to do for his marriage After his wife kissed another man with whom she has a “secret” connection.

Seeking “Opinions from the Ladies”, the man crowned his situation at the Community Forum MumnetExplaining his long wife and mother of their three children makes him feel like a “spare part” in their relationship.

“I discovered that my wife of 22 years announces another guy – went pretty fast from just friends to now she doubts our entire marriage,” he wrote. “I have never fulfilled her properly and we are on my way to all the end.”

“She wants time to sort it in the head but I am feeling that I am a spare part in my own marriage,” he continued. For background I have been a pretty good husband (at least that’s what I thought!)-Yes a few pieces that lack post-children but is this a reason not to at least try? I’m a little lost. “

In the comment section, the husband clarified his wife’s situation.

“They have not had sex but have kissed and been very secret. It’s more at the emotional level right now,” he said.

A female reader replied that “marriage is over.”

“Don’t let her stop while playing the pick-me-dance. Ask her to leave with immediate effect, if necessary, arrange alternative accommodation for yourself,” she emphasized. “She thinks the grass is greener? Let her go ahead and plow it. Protect yourself now, she is not your friend. This is exactly the same advice I would give to a woman in this situation.”

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Other Mumsnet users tried to describe the way of thinking on a cheater.

“When a cheat admits he kissed someone else, it usually means they have gone much further,” commented a person. “She is a branch swinger – wants the next guy safe before leaving the amenities of marriage, but emotionally she has already left you, and now it is entirely on whether the other man will commit.”