‘How dare we tell her no’

• A woman vented on reddit about her best friend’s demanding behavior as a bride
• The bridal party has noticed that the bride gets annoyed when she does not get her way, with the latest conflict that occurs over bridesmaids. “This is not the only time she asked for an opinion and got angry when we don’t agree with what she wants,” wrote the woman
• Fellow Reddit users suggested that the poster go down from her bridesmaid role or have a difficult conversation with the bride to save their friendship

A bride and her bridesmaids are in violation of bridesmaids.

A member of the bridal party vented around the conflict in a post on Reddits “Bridezillas” forum. The woman’s best friend since third grade marries in October, but during the months up to the wedding, the bride has asked her maid and five bridesmaids about her opinions about things, just to get “crazy” if they disagree with her.

“From the blue we get a text that she is angry with us all and says she is the bride, this is her wedding and how dare we say her no to something she asked for and in the future not argue with her about what she wants,” wrote Redditor.

The angry text was sent after the six bridal party members said they would prefer that their dresses are not slender.

When the bride started planning her wedding, she initially told her friends “several times” that they could get “any style” they wanted as long as their dresses were “the same color.”

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The women appreciated this flexibility from “caring and caring” bride because they are “all different shapes and sizes”, and not every dress style fits each body type in the same way.

“She told us because she wants us to feel beautiful and comfortable,” Redditor explained.

Last month, however, the bride seems to have a change in the heart.

“When we picked out our dresses, she said: ‘I want your opinion. How do you like all the sleeveless dresses?’ “The woman remembers. “She asked us our opinion and some of the bridesmaids said they are uncomfortable in sleeveless for various reasons (big breast, no support, hard to dance in, etc.) and would rather have sleeves even if it was a little strap but are willing to show her their choice before they buy.”

The bride “went to this but then sent the group their angry text message.

Now the bridal party is even more “confused” because the bride accuses them of “forcing” her to let them wear different style dresses.

“We said we would be willing to work with her to find something that fits the vision. Jump forward again. All dresses have bought and approved by her. We then get a text she talked to other family members, and they said it will be horrible and destroy the theme/pictures that we are not all in the same dress,” said the woman. “She is pissed off that we forced her to let us carry what we wanted when she initially said we could choose.”

The Redditor now notices a pattern that the bride gets annoyed when she does not get her way. But she “doesn’t understand” why she continues to ask for people’s opinions when she doesn’t actually want honest feedback.

“This is not the only time she asked for an opinion and got angry when we don’t agree with what she wants,” she said. “I would so much rather say,” this is what I want, please do, “rather than,” what is your opinion about … “I do not understand why she continues to ask for opinions when she has an idea and will get angry when we do not go,” oh my god, so good idea. ”

The bridesmaid has started to “back off” from her friendship with the bride because she “can’t stand” who she has become since wedding planning.

Fellow Reddit users suggested that the poster go down from her position if her relationship with the bride gets bad.

“If I was in the wedding party, I would terminate my bridesmaid position,” one person wrote. “I’m not a props at a wedding. If that’s what she wants, she can rent one for her wedding.”

Since the bride’s behavior is “unlike” her, some redditors suggested that the poster would try to save the friendship by having an honest conversation about her demanding acts.

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“If she is your best friend and this is of nature, I would recommend having what will probably be a difficult conversation with her,” commented someone. “Be honest about how her behavior has made you feel and let her know that it is not ok. And ask her how she really is doing.”

The individual continued, “It sounds like she feels a lot of pressure and just doesn’t handle it well. Think of it so here-would you want her to tell you about stress had turned you into an unpleasant person? We need our besties to tell when we become unpleasant B ——.”