A man told a guy that he just met ‘once’ that his girlfriend cheated

A man told a stranger that he has only met “once” that his Girlfriend cheated on him – And he is not so sure it was the right call.

The 20-year-old detailed his experience with the popular Reddit forum “Am I a ——,” A place where Reddit users can go to search input for interpersonal dilemma.

In his post, Redditor explained that one of his “friends”, whom he clarifies is “more or less (one) acquaintance”, kissed someone who was not her boyfriend during a new night out. The man also explained that while he was not there to see the kiss for himself, he learned about it through a group chat.

The man went on to explain that he then got one of his friends – as he says is “not linked” to the situation – to anonymously notify the boyfriend and “let him know.”

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The original poster (OP) said he would normally have told his boyfriend – whom he has only met “once” – directly, but he tried not to get anyone in his group chat involved. But OP said that the rest of the people in the group chat finally found out what he was doing and since then has told him that he should have stayed away from it.

OP said that while he understands where his friends come from, he believes that “If Someone’s cheating, People should say things as soon as possible. ”

“Am I a ——?” he asked his colleagues.

The vast majority of the man’s colleagues Reddit users said they think he made the right call and that he is not the bad guy in this scenario.

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“No, you’re not A ——,” said one person. “She cheated on himAnd you told him she did. It’s her fault for cheating. ”

“Always interrupted cheaters,” said someone else and added, “and anyone who thinks it is wrong to do so has dubious morals.”

“NTA (not A ——). TBH (to be honest) I would reconsider the friendship with the people who saw and did not say anything to the boyfriend,” added anyone else.

After reading the various comments, OP said that while his friends made some “valid” points about his actions “that affect certain situational things” he has Still not apologizing – He doesn’t plan either. ”

“(I am) keep me in my actions,” he said.