The woman told the family to “raise or shut up” about chores

A the family’s matriarchwho is in school to get a master’s degree, earned her MAN and children A fixed reality check about household chores.

The woman crowned her frustrations over the family’s attitude around the house on Reddits ”Am i a —— “the forumWhere she also wrote that she was surprised by her husband’s response to her assertiveness.

“I am married and have three children, all of them are teenagers. My husband and I work both and my children are in school and do sports or clubs after school,” she explained that now that she conducts her master’s degree she cannot do the amount of chores and cooking that she used to do.

“I do what I can, but between work, school and everything else at home, not everyone can be done,” she continued. “Yesterday my husband came to me while I did my homework and said that the shower curtain feed in our bathroom was mold. This pushed me over the edge.”

Mom called a family meeting.

“I got my family to get into the living room and told them that if they don’t like how something is, they have capable bodies and can handle it themselves, that they have the skills to clean,” she wrote.

“My children claimed that they would not have to do more, they are in school and occupied afterwards,” she added. “I told them I don’t care, I’m also busy and I can’t do everything, that they have to get up or shut up.”

Later in the night, her husband confronted her about the meeting.

“My husband told me that I was too hard and had to lighten up. He says I was rude and basically tells them that their feelings do not matter and I have to dismiss them,” she recalled. “I told him that the message was not only for the children, it was too for him. He must rise.”

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Worry that she might have been “too hard” for her family, mother of three asked Redditors, “am I a —— for telling my family if they don’t like how something is, can they take care of it themselves?”

Her July 6 Reddit posts have attracted almost 1,000 responses, with many who strike with her and tell her that she is “NTA (not A ——).”

“Everyone must absolutely rise,” answered one reader, while another commented, “It is a subtle form of sabotage. He is (consciously)” punishing “because you do not take care of everything in the household yourself.”