Daughter wants to move home after getting a big Danish. But parents say no

A woman refused to let her adult daughter move back because of the size of her dog, but now she wonders if she was wrong.

The 50-something woman shared that her 22-year-old daughter moved out last year to live with her boyfriend.

But they broke up last month, and her daughter asked if she could move back for “a few months.” For starters, the woman and her husband were “open to it”, until their daughter “said she also brought her great Danish.”

“We have a small house, two cats and limited patience. We also helped her raise the dog originally, and I remember the damage it did, chew furniture, hit things over, scares the cats, etc.,” shares the woman.

The poster and her husband told her daughter that she could move in “without the dog”, even offered to pay for a “short -lived pet -friendly rent or boarding solution until she was stable.”

“She said no,” the woman writes. “She claimed that we” asked her to abandon her child “and that we” valued furniture more than her happiness. “

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The daughter now lives with a friend and does not respond to her parent’s conversation.

Other family members have also been involved. “Her aunt (my sister) says that we are heartless and that” children come home with luggage sometimes, “the woman writes.” I feel for her, I really do but I also feel that we are manipulated. ”

Most people in the comments agree that her daughter is an adult and must live with the consequences of her decision.

“She’s an adult. She has made an adult decision: her dog is her priority,” replied a person. “She will figure out her living situation. She is completely capable of doing so.”

“You gave her a good idea and she decided on it, your peace and pets are also important,” another agreed. “Bet that she will not pay for what is broken either.”

A third person noted that aunt would only “have (daughter and dog move in with her” if she wants to get involved.