The woman says her partner’s “very needy” ex contact him at inappropriate times

A woman says her boyfriend is “Very needy” ex Continues to contact him at inappropriate times – and she thinks he should say something.

The woman detailed her experience of “Am I unreasonable” Forum on the British-based community site Mumsnet. In her post, the woman explained that she and her current partner have been together for two years and that they moved in together “around Christmas.”

The original poster (OP) said her partner shares a 4-year-old daughter with a woman he had A night stand Several years ago. She said that her daughter stays with them for about half of each week, and in general, “it’s all wonderful”, and she is happy with their lives.

The problem? The woman has some “problems” with the mother to her partner’s daughter.

“She seems very needy,” explained OP and added, “she will text to my (partner) asking for a change of days (for their daughter) in a few weeks, and if he does not respond in about 10 minutes, she will call repeatedly.”

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“She has also started calling him in very odd hours – 12.00, for example – if she cannot solve her daughter. My (partner) does not respond to these conversations either, but she continues,” she continued.

OP said that the woman is often trying to keep her partner in unnecessarily long conversations at pick-ups and drop-offs, and once even mentioned she believed her current partner was with a deal.

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OP continued to say that the other woman originally wanted a romantic relationship with her partner when she first became pregnant, but he did not return the emotions.

“AIBU (am I unreasonable) to find this kind of behavior odd? And what do I do?” OP finally asked about the other woman’s conversations and comments.

“(My partner) thinks ignoring is the best approach, but I think it is really disrespectful,” the woman added.

Most comments said they thought that ignore the behavior was actually the best approach – and said they thought OP should cut the other woman a little slack.

“You don’t do anything. This is not your circus and these are not your monkeys,” one person said.

They added, ”(your partner) has the right to ignore it. She is Probably alone And looking for someone to share the hard times for parenting with, and it is clearly not ideal that (your partner) is a co-parent rather than her live-in partner, but she does not cross any limits in your relationship or do anything wrong here. (Your partner) must only continue to maintain their limits and manage it when a situation arises. ”

Another person said, “When you have a child with someoneYou are part of each other’s lives for good, whether it is too better or worse. Your (partner) was 50% responsible for the creation of their child, and (…) it will never be as simple as saying that it is not his problem. Yes, she sounds difficult, but equal, it’s his child’s mother you are talking about. ”

The same person added, “Your (partner) sounds like he has a good read about the situation and doing the right things. You have to stop trying to change it and decide for yourself whether you want to stay with him or not.”