The man says his girlfriend lets her go into them, and he moved out

A man said his girlfriend Let her ex move Into the home they share, and she doesn’t understand why he’s not okay with it.

The man detailed his experience at the Reddit forum, “Am I a ——,” A place where Reddit users can go to seek input and advice on interpersonal conflicts. In his post, the man explained that his girlfriend, who he says has a ten -year -old daughter from a previous relationship, bought a house last year and “I moved in with her.”

The man added that while he is not on the deed or mortgageHe was “happy to contribute to the household”, noting that until recently he contributed about $ 2,000 per month to $ 5,000 mortgage.

He says “Things went well”-until his girlfriend informed him that she “would let her ex (her daughter’s father) move in to help with parents.”

“I was not excited about the idea, but I tried to understand because I know how important stability is to their daughter,” continued the original poster.

But OP said he eventually began to feel like a “third wheel” in the home.

“It became clear that her ex still had feelings for her. He was too familiar and acted as if he were still part of the relationship. It made me very uncomfortable,” he wrote.

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Redditor said he ultimately decided to move out “for my own mental and emotional well -being”, but his girlfriend is now “upset” that he no longer lives there or contributes to mortgage.

“I have told her that I am not comfortable to live in the same house as her ex, and that I do not think it is fair to keep financial support for a property that I have no ownership in, especially under these circumstances,” he explained.

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“I care about her and her daughter, but I also have to take care of my own economic and emotional health,“The man wrote at the end of his post and added:” Aita (am I a ——)? ”

The vast majority of commentators said that the poster should move on from this relationship, with a number of them theorizing that the girlfriend can use him.

“This woman uses both of you to pay her mortgage. She plays games for financial profits,” replied a person.

“Nta (not a ——),” said someone else and added, “but you are a chump. Girlfriend has her ex moves back-it is alone enough to break up.”

“NTA. You’re not on mortgage, and you currently do not live there. Cut and dry,” wrote another commentator.