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A mother is survey out her feelings after a Holiday planning hiccup.
The mother of two adult children detailed on the community forum Mumnet That she and her husband planned their first vacation in several years for their family of four – but one of their daughters gave a plot.
“I was looking forward to this trip. Everything went well until my 25-year-old daughter asked to bring her partner,” she remembered. “I don’t mind him, but this is a family holiday.”
“I explained this to my daughter and she said she doesn’t want to come if she can’t bring her partner when she sees him as a family too,” she continued before adding more context about the couple. “They have been together since she was 19, but live about 7 hours away so we don’t see them much.”
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Now the mother wonders if she is unreasonable that they would only include to include the closest family, sans her daughter’s partner.
“Am I unreasonable to think that she doesn’t have to do everything with him and she should still be on vacation?” she asked the forum.
People at Mosnet had mixed reactions to the situation.
“You just have to accept her answer to not go and leave it. To cause fuss because she does not want to go without her partner will not get you anywhere,” an reader replied. “You have offered something, she has declined. It is. Although I think you are unreasonable not to invite her partner when they have been together 6 years.”
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Another person agreed to comment, “I would not be impressed if my mother did the same and then continued to debt me about it.”
At the same time, a third user simply recommended to the mother concerned, “suggest that they come = they pay for themselves.”