Bride Mad after brother’s girlfriend spent her entire bachelorette party crochet

A bride asks Reddit users if she is wrong to request that her brother’s girlfriend stop crocheting at her bachelor party.

On one post On the platform’s “Am in The A ——” forum, the bride, 28, shared how a “super rude” guest, 36, at her bachelor party last weekend “would insist on crocheting all the time, even during events and games.”

The bride did not initially plan to invite her brother’s girlfriend for five months to her Bachelorette trip this weekend because she does not “know her well” but did it as a “service” for him because he wanted her to have the “experience.” However, the woman refused to participate in some activity and insisted that she crochet instead.

“When I asked her to participate with us, she said she took time off for the trip and wanted to take advantage of her” vacation “by catching up with her crocheted projects,” wrote the bride. “And playing games and spending time with my friends was not” fun “and she didn’t want to” waste “free days.”

The bride was good with the woman who crocheted on her shared cabin at night, but had problems with her crochet during the group activities, which she “insisted” to come to. To make things worse, she crocheted a huge throwing blanket and wore five balls of edge talent sizes with her everywhere.

“My question is that she took her crochet with us to places like wine tasting, brunch, a museum tour, etc. It was super disrespectful in my eyes because she would insist on coming yet would not participate in the activity,” she explained. “Honestly, I was disturbed that she crocheted when we played bridal games, but at least it was in our living room!”

After the trip, the crocker “Super Peeveed” was that the bride “asked to limit her crochet time” and feels like she deserves an apology. Although the bride does not want the situation to come between her and her brother, she does not believe that an apology is motivated.

“My brother has tormented me to apologize to her for destroying her journey,” she said. “I personally do not feel that I should, because she should not have come to a bachelor party if she did not want to do bachelorette-y-things!”

The bride pointed out that the woman “does not have social anxiety” and simply did not think the activities were worth her time and attention.

“She just thought our activities were boring and waste of her time,” the bride noted. “I heard that she called my party a” basic b —- bachelorette “, but I didn’t want to confront her because I didn’t want to cause drama.”

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In the comment section, Reddit users said that the bride’s brother’s girlfriend was wrong. They agreed that crochet throughout the trip was “disrespectful” and lacked a label, and that if anyone were to apologize, it would be the crochet. They also said that it to treat the bride’s bachelor party “as a personal holiday for herself” and demanded an apology from her for destroying “her journey” was selfish.

“She has absolutely no way and is impossible to please. Honestly, tell your brother and definitely don’t apologize,” commented a person. “She’s just classless. You don’t invite yourself to anything and then make it off.”

“She asked to be invited and insisted on accompanying all activities,” wrote another user. “But then she insisted on crocheting all the time as a way to let you know how bored she was, she talked — about you all the time, and now she wants an apology?”