The woman says her boyfriend is angry that she became friends with her ex-girlfriend

A woman is in violation of her boyfriend after opening up a very unlikely friendship with her ex-girlfriend.

In a post Reddits “Am I A ——?” Forum, the woman explained that her boyfriend was with her ex-girlfriend on and off for about six months before their relationship ended in “bad terms.” Although he knew the background, the woman revealed that she refuses to block his ex since they joined social media.

Redditor said she has been with her boyfriend for five months, but it is recently that his ex looked at her Tiktok.

“I followed her and she added me on snap,” she said about her boyfriend’s ex. “We’ve just talked about, nothing about him, we just get along.”

The woman revealed that her boyfriend was furious when he discovered their budding online friendship.

“He found out and got really angry and told me to block her, but I refused and now he is angry with me,” she said before asked, “(am I a ——)?”

The post was flooded by comments from people who say that the woman’s boyfriend cannot control who she is talking to, while at the same time she has seemed inappropriate to talk to her ex-girlfriend.

“Personally, I think it’s a bit strange to be friends with your significant others’ ex, but I am,” wrote a person. “If I asked my partner to block my ex and they didn’t, I’m not sure they would remain a partner. Not a cheating question, a relationship limit. NAH (not A ——) but think about boundaries and if it was the other way around.”

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“You might be AH (A ——). Something may have happened between his ex and him that is harmful and that he is too embarrassed to talk about,” commented on another. “Are you really invested in being friends with his ex? It’s not if you are an Ah. It’s a matter of this is a battle worth fighting.”

“You get to choose who you are talking to. As I said, I can see why he feels uncomfortable, because she is his ex and their story is messy,” said a third.

“It’s about trust: If you just chat as friends and don’t talk about him, it’s not shady on your part,” the same person continued. “He must not control your friendship, but it is worth having a quiet conversation about boundaries so that you both feel respected.”

“A person meets a stranger online,” wrote someone else. “That stranger has deeply injured his partner. The person with the injured partner actively chooses to strive for a friendship with the stranger who injured his partner. You had no previous friendship with this woman. It is strange to believe that your boyfriend would be okay with this. Surface (you are a —–).”