Sister threaten to leave the wedding party over Brides revealing dress

A woman threatens to release from her sister’s wedding party because the bride refuses to “tone down” her dress.

On one post On Reddits “I am Jerk” forum, the bride, 27, asked users if she was wrong to “refuse to change” her wedding dress at the request of her “uncertain” sister, 25, who “does not want to overshadow in the photos.”

“I gently told her that the wedding dress is about me, not her, and I don’t change it,” the bride said. “She cried and said I prioritized” vanity “in front of her feelings.”

“Now she threatens not to be in the bridal party,” she added.

The bride explained that her younger sister, who is her maid, has “struggled with body image” lately. While trying to be “nothing but supportive”, she draws the line towards her sister who projects her physical insecurities on her on her wedding day next spring.

The sisters began to bump their heads after the bride shared pictures of her wedding dress a week before. “When I showed her she walked quietly and then said it was” too revealing “(it has a low back),” the woman wrote about her sibling’s reaction to the dress. “She asked if I would choose something less” attention. “

While the bride is stuck with her decision not to change her dress because she believes that the focus of her celebration and photos should be on her, not everyone who agrees with her choice is. Their mother has asked her to compromise with “for peace.”

Reddit users in the comment section mostly with the bride.

“NTA (not A ——). She should be overshadowed in the pictures,” published the comment. “She is not the main character – you are. You are not the one who should compromise” for peace. “She must grow up and peace will follow.

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Some redditors said that the bride’s sister, especially as her maid, should focus on lifting her and not trying to steal “the limelight.” So they claimed it would not be so bad if she followed her threat to leave the wedding party.

“If she can’t handle being in the background, maybe she needs a new title or just participating as a guest,” wrote one person, with another supplement, “her job is to make the bride’s day simpler, less stressful for Pete’s sake.”

Several individuals commented that the mother was an important part of the problem. They claimed that it sounded as if she would rather have “quiet” than deal with her youngest daughter’s “poisonous” and “injustice” behavior. By not confronting it, “she activates it.”